Sunday, April 6, 2025

no matter what

Recently, there's a big-screen movie and a neflix movie that seems to caught lots of parental attention of the hidden messages of the show.
People start posting their views and what key points that we should take away from the show. 
A parent(s) love and right guidance is very important to a child. 
Being presence to them means more than anything, unless we have been interpreting "presence" to them in the wrong way. 
Setting boundary for them doesn't mean stopping them for exploring, but to explore responsibly.
Home should be the safest place to be, but, we all should still stay vigilant of the world wide web.
Letting your child(ren) knows that you love them is important, and it is important also for them to know how to continue to live lovingly without you.

Tuesday, December 31, 2024

goodbye 2024, hello 2025

Goodbye 2024.. Counting down for the last one hour.
It's like a common ritual, that by end of the year, all should look back and summarize what had happened, be it good or bad. Then what to look for in the brand new year.
But I think I've stop doing so for the last few years. So, am I starting it back again? Nay, of course I'm not.
Looking back at this year.. Opps, ain't that duplicity. Anyway, let's just do what the Romans do. 
Looking back at this year, days do pass by fast as if they are flying, yet they don't pass by easily. It's a year of new learning, new adaption to new schedule and dealing with new people.
I'm hoping that the coming new year, my pace will slow down, and let me digest on how to plan for my retirement. All the hypes are moving my attention away from the ultimate retirement plan. I'm still looking for my pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

May the brand new 2025, brings better days.
Welcome 2025!

Sunday, September 1, 2024

writing

I love writing, I do, though I rarely do now.
I tend to think that writing is an art. Which is why I love reading, too. Especially, of skillful writers, as they can transport you into a whole different world, by just using words. Don't underestimate the shows and movies you are watching, as it's written by the scriptwriter, too!

Writing not only can convey messages, if beautifully written, it can also pass down emotions, too. Words are powerful, so long they are used in the right way.