Friday, June 28, 2019

Doubt and confidence

Why seed of doubt can be planted so easily, while fire of confidence can be smothered as easily as well.

When we start doubting ourselves or doubt others, the doubt will only cause more severe problems and breakdown of relationships, as the seed keeps growing.

When our level of confidence goes down, everything seems to go awry and nothing seems to be the right thing to do, as the fire has been put off.

In life, don't let the seed of doubt be planted and be grown into a tree. Nor do you let your fire of confidence be smothered away but instead, kindle it and turn it into bonfire.
There's no one else, but you yourself that can do it. Stop the seed of doubt, keep the fire of confidence going.
It might not be easy. No, it won't be. Still, work on it. You can do it.

Thursday, June 27, 2019

Dread to go home?

Why do we sometimes dread to go back home?

Won't you from time to time, feel that you just simply don't want to go home?
Because you feel that back home, you'll have to face the unpleasant memories and maybe people that make you pissed off.
You feel undervalued and keep being pinpoint at of the problems, that you just want to get away as far as possible.

And yet, there are also times that you would want to go home, as there are still those that you loved, at home, who are also waiting for you. Not waiting for you to do housework, not waiting to blame you on problems that arised, not waiting for you to make decisions or give answers. But simply just waiting for you, to be there for them. Just as simple as that.

When it's getting hard to decide between going home or not, why not take a deep breathe first. Let your emotions flow. Let go of your sadness and fear. Focus on love.

There's a quote recently saw in FB, as below

When God pushes you to the edge of difficulty
Trust Him fully
Because two things can happen
Either He'll catch you when you fall
Or He'll teach you how to fly

Monday, June 24, 2019

Love

Is love something that's so hard to chase and keep?

Love has so many forms and we can't escape from love.

And how do we maintain love?