Pastime

What is your pastime or hobby?

Don't you think you frequently heard this question when you are school goer?
What are the things that you are doing during your free time.
After you have started work, you will still have people asking you what you do during your free time.
But do you realise that the thing you do during your free time as a kid/schooler, is something that interests you, and can make you just do that particular thing while ignoring other stuffs.
While, as a working adult or parent, the thing you do during your free time is actually something that you do to make you relax or offload your daily stress.

Try to compare your pastime before and after you become a working adult/parent.
How many of the working adults/parents still persist having their own pastime?
It ain't easy to juggle with current schedules on hand, whats more of having a pastime. For some, they might just want extra sleeps, that's all.

If given a chance, what pastime would you want to continue to have?
A pastime that really interests you that it can brings you into another world of your own.

Relación: complicado

Relationship : Complicated

Where am I in the relationship?
I don't know. It's complicated.

Treading carefully, as we don't know how deep is the water, or if there's anything beneath it.

De nuevo

We're back to usual life again. But I'm having myself to be caution. And I have to remind myself again and again, to beware of the landmine. Else, I am the one that might end up being seriously injured.

I do know that marriage is not an easy thing. There have been lotsa examples around me. Yet, marriage is like life, which everyone is living uniquely. So, sometimes, it is just incomparable.
I do know there should be tolerance as well as giving in and forgiveness from time to time. Yet, how many times can we last and how strong can we be?

I can only say for now, that to take a step at a time. I can't foresee what future will be, but I do know that God will only give us test that makes us stronger, and not test that breaks us.

May God bless.