Tuesday, May 10, 2011

fairy godmother

Sometimes, it is fun reading fairy tales, where there seem to be endless of fairy godmothers that always come in hand in the time of needs. Where is our fairy godmother in real life?
If fairy godmother is real, I wonder how would it looks like in this modern era. Would he or she (presumable that guy can be fair god-mother, opps, -father) looks like our next-door-neighbour?
How many would we meet in our lifetime? One, two, or as many as we need?

I wonder ... I wonder ..

Monday, May 2, 2011

ROM ... checked

Finally, one thing done. My ROM is over!
It was less tension then I thought it might be.
Things were considered going by the flow, though there are minor hiccups now and then.

Coming up next would be things to be ready for the Actual Day.

Funnily enough, there still seem to be a lot of things yet to be done, but on the other hand, doesn't seem so.
I wonder if the list of things that we keep track, are good enough.
I think, not having to stretch the planning over a period of one whole year is good for me. But, I know that there are some who would prefer a one-year-ahead-planning. Some would be thinking from the financial aspect, some would think from the mentally preparation, etc, etc.

However, the most important thing is the couple who is going through the whole deal. The participation from both parties are really important, and you could actually learn more about your other half if you have not done so.

Looking foward to the days nearing the Actual Day.

moving on

Moving on, step by step, everyday.
No matter how reluctant you may be, you still have to move on, towards another new step, another new beginning.

There are that people being bugged by previous unsuccessful relationships, or people that are having hard time accepting their health status, or even people that have to move out of their comfort zone to be in a new environment. All these are inevitable. Everyone of us will get to face these or something similar, that is prompting us to move on.

Some may be happily accepting the change, some may be doubting if the change is good. One way or another, there bound to be a reason that you have to face it. It is either face it or turn away from it. But, how long can you avoid change? One way or another, change will come to seek for you.
Therefore, why not try to accept it and move on?

Maybe with a little acceptance, a little planning, a little patience, moving on might be a wise choice than to turn around at the same spot over and over again.

Move on, my friends. May the change not only brings you better view of yourself, your life but also brings you more courage to pursue your dreams, your life.