Stressed

Stressed.. I'm feeling stressed.. Really feeling very stress..

Others might have wondered, "Why are you so stressed out? You don't really do much."

"Work?"
"Man, you should have know just to do what's within your scope. Everyone's doing theirs only, too. "
"Too much work? Feedback to your boss. We just work within working hours. Learn to delegate."
"We are all just taking salary, if work can't be done, there's nothing can be done then. We're being paid for the working hours only. No reason why you should work after working hours."

"Housework?"
"Hey, get a maid, give time to yourself."
"No maid, but ain't your spouse doing all the rest of the housework? You only cares for the kids, you should have lots of free time. How envious, all you need to do is only to care for your kids."

"Too much things to do?"
"Give priority. Those unimportant person or things, just put them aside. Those are just people or stuff temporary crossing your path, not that you'll need them, anyway."
"Priorities are only your closed family, first kids then spouse. The rest are actually not so important. Just meet or do them when you are free. They are around all time round, no hurry."

These are not the way I do things. That's not me. I cannot, and I simply can't follow it. That's not me!!!
Why, do I have to limit myself to do what others expect of me? Why is there even an expectation of me, which isn't even me.
I hate living within everyone else's expectations. Why can't I just do what I like?
Why not, just because there's a spouse and kids that I can no longer be me? Aren't they supposed to be my supportive aide instead of my prison?