hurt

What do you do when you heard something hurtful from others? Do you act denial? Do you feign ignorance? Do you retaliate?
Well, hearing hurtful words from others seems to be a common thing in life now - when trying to iron out an issue, or when trying to come to a conclusion of a discussion. Things can get pretty ugly if they get out of hand.

I guess, we have heard about the all the morale values that we should have when dealing with others in our daily lives - to respect others, hear as well as to listen to others when they are speaking, do not jump into conclusions, think of solution instead of starting blaming game when issue arise, etc, etc.
But when a problem crops up, most of the time, all these values disappear at the same time, too.
Humans first instinct is to protect themselves when facing any danger. No doubt, you can't blame them for that, but on the other hand, it's really annoying, at times.

Sometimes it's really hard to juggle between your feelings, your sense of righteous and your logical thinking. These three seem to clash with each other, at times. If so, who should you listen, too?

Being the one who got hurt is really unbearable. But at the same time, the other party might be thinking he or her is being hurt as well. There it goes, now we have two victims being hurt, but are blaming each other.

Life is so suffocating with all these small issues, right? Why can't live be simpler and happier without all those crappy people?
Or is it that we have missed out something crucial from these?
Maybe we should all start thinking from the bright side of it. Without all these, how would we be able to appreciate simpler lives then? We would have thought simpler lives are just boring lives, instead.

The world sure have its own way to deal with us, humans.