becareful.. he will fall..

"Becareful, he will fall. Better just carry him." That's the inner voice of most parents, the innerself that always want to protect their child from any harm or hurt.

But for me, I would rather think differently. I'm not afraid of him falling. Instead, I'm afraid that he's scared of falling and doesn't know how to pick himself up. And another thought of mine, I'm afraid he doesn't know the right way of falling. 

Falling down, literally or not, is a common thing for everyone. Not only kids but adults, too. If one is afraid of falling, then he will never dare to take the next step. If one doesn't know how to pick himself up after falling, he will be forever sitting on the ground, crying and lamenting on his fate. If one doesn't know the right way to fall, he will hurt himself unnecessarily and keep on falling again and again.

A simple care, sometimes, may end up to be hurting our child. We have been kids, and we are parents now. Most parents wouldn't want their children to go through their unfortunate fate, some parents wanted their children to hit the unreachable sky. 

Don't forget your innerchild voice, and you will understand what a child needs. A child needs and wants may sometimes seems ridiculous to you. But seriously, hadn't you?