everything will be ok

Saw an interesting quote posted in FB by a friend - "Everything will be ok in the end. If it's not ok then it's not the end."
How many of us do not face a problem or two, now and then, if not frequent?
How do you handle it?

Sometimes, in midst of our problem, we tend to feel the need to find strength to face the problem.
If it is only a small problem which can be solved with a snap of fingers, of course we wouldn't worry much (that doesn't sounds like a problem at all).
But if it is something bigger that what we anticipated, something we have no idea how to solve, something out of our control - keep calm first.
For, we all know that God wouldn't put hurdles that we can't crossed. But first and foremost, we must try to cross it. You cannot expect standing in front of the hurdle, thinking it will go away, when in fact, you should be thinking whether to jump over it, to crawl under it or to walk around it. No one is able to move the body and the mind of yours, except for you, yourself.
The hurdle might be small, might be big; might be short, might be long; might be easy, might be hard - to cross. But when the hurdle is put in front of you, it's for you to think and work it out on solving it.

If you need the strength to carry on, why not just remember the quote - "Everything will be ok in the end. If it's not ok then it's not the end."
Keep it up!

FIV (7)

There goes another visit, which was yesterday.
This round is also a quick one, which ended up with medication of oestrogen for the next 10 days.
Boy, the next visit might be a crucial once as decision will be made on the next visit.
Gotta cross my fingers.

lessons about letting go (3)

An article sparks my interest on lessons about letting go - an article from a columnist, SEJ. It says that apart from material possessions, learning to let go of our emotional baggage is good for the soul. Carrying the historical emotional baggage prevent us from living a complete life. And, healing begins with a forgiving heart. That is real freedom.

You might think letting go is not hard, but it is only when you faced the same issue again and being frustrated or hurt, that means you have not let it go.
How do we let go of our emotional baggage?
Take a deep breathe, recognize it, confront it and let it go. It may not be easy, but it is not something impossible to do. Sometimes, you just have to face the issue head on, if not, the thoughts will still linger on, and so will the scar. Covering it up does not do any good, nor will it go away on its own. It will still keep coming back to you, in one way or another. So, instead of facing it numerous times, why not solve it once and for all.
Just remember, though it is not easy, it is not impossible either.

You might think letting go is hard, but when you faced the same issue again and find that you no longer feel annoyed or sad , that means you have let it go.
And when that time comes, you will find yourself happier than before and is able to enjoy your life even more. And who knows, you might even able to help those around you who are still carrying their baggage around.
Just remember, when you have actually went through the hurdle, nothing else will be too hard to cross.