I may not be a person that takes things too seriously, but I ain't a person who takes things lightly, too.
It may sounds the same to you, but it doesn't to me.
Self-denial? Nay, I don't think so.
Well, someone just told me to hang on for these few months.
I know he's basically trying to cheer for himself, or so I think.
Maybe in his point of view, he's cheering for us to hang on, but to me, it's more of a moral support for himself.
What is your reaction, if someone tells you that he/she might not lives long, maybe for just another few months time. Surprise? Indifference? Sad? Relieve?
Honestly, it is a mixture of all feelings to me. This is because, living and dying is a cycle that everyone needs to go through. There would definately be a moment of sadness because of the loss, but also a moment of relieve as the pain would no longer linger around.
Most of the times, I would not take those words seriously, for instance, if people are telling me that they can't or don't want to survive long. Not because I'm inhumane, but it's just that these are the negative vibes that appear once in a while and after a while it would go away.
All living things strive to live, because not all have the chance.
And if you are given an opportunity of a lifetime to live, how could you even given it up without trying hard.
Things may not always go the way we planned it, but that's what life is all about.
We live to learn what life really is, and not life that we conjour them up to be.
Wednesday, January 16, 2013
Saturday, November 10, 2012
confuse? don't be .. just go ahead
Do you at times, feel contradict or confuse with yourself?
To deny what you had earlier said or thought?
When things suddenly become so complicated, that you don't even know how you got yourself tangled up.
What would you do at the times when you are confused?
When you seems to be contradicting with your ownself?
Do you stop and
1) re-think again, from backwards, step by step, to see where the confusion had started
2) erase all previous conjucture and start to think from the original point, all over again
3) simply put the matter aside first, until you are cool headed to think again
4) simply give up thinking at all, and leave the matter to others to solve it
Well, for me, I think I had done all four options, but applied for different matters, at different times, of course. *I hope so*
But it's really important to be clear your mind when you are confused, else wrong decision might be made, though some may be lucky to hit jackpot sometimes, but not for all. A wrong decision might lead you to an even bigger confusion state.
However, do not let it (making wrong decision) be a stumbling block, stopping you from making the decision, from taking that one step.
No matter what decision you make, in what kind of situation, just be responsible for it. Be it good or bad, it's still your own decision anyway. Face it up, and somehow, there will be another way out for you.
Do not be confused by your surroundings. Stay focus and alert at all times, then you will know when time comes, what is the best decision to be made. There is no definate answer to the decision you should make, as our future is a mystery waiting for us to unfold ourselves. Be it good or bad, that is the choice we made.
Just go ahead!
To deny what you had earlier said or thought?
When things suddenly become so complicated, that you don't even know how you got yourself tangled up.
What would you do at the times when you are confused?
When you seems to be contradicting with your ownself?
Do you stop and
1) re-think again, from backwards, step by step, to see where the confusion had started
2) erase all previous conjucture and start to think from the original point, all over again
3) simply put the matter aside first, until you are cool headed to think again
4) simply give up thinking at all, and leave the matter to others to solve it
Well, for me, I think I had done all four options, but applied for different matters, at different times, of course. *I hope so*
But it's really important to be clear your mind when you are confused, else wrong decision might be made, though some may be lucky to hit jackpot sometimes, but not for all. A wrong decision might lead you to an even bigger confusion state.
However, do not let it (making wrong decision) be a stumbling block, stopping you from making the decision, from taking that one step.
No matter what decision you make, in what kind of situation, just be responsible for it. Be it good or bad, it's still your own decision anyway. Face it up, and somehow, there will be another way out for you.
Do not be confused by your surroundings. Stay focus and alert at all times, then you will know when time comes, what is the best decision to be made. There is no definate answer to the decision you should make, as our future is a mystery waiting for us to unfold ourselves. Be it good or bad, that is the choice we made.
Just go ahead!
Thursday, September 27, 2012
describe your partner
While listening to a song this afternoon, a question suddenly popped out of my head.
Maybe because of the song lyrics or maybe because of the recent wedding bells around, that somehow this question appears, "If given a thing to describe your partner of life, what would he or she be?"
Have you ever been asked such a question?
Normally people would just ask what do you like about your partner, how did you both met and got together.
But if given such a question, how would you answer it?
Give yourself a few seconds to ponder on it.
Being in a relationship or marriage, somehow has a deep feeling and meaning.
You may not realise it at first when you fall in love, but as you will gradually sense it or know it as you are falling in love.
For me, my partner is just like a rope.
A rope that binds me to the ground, else I would be floating around like a balloon.
A rope that reminds me to be down-to-earth, else I would be wandering around in my faraway castles.
A rope that wouldn't let go no matter how harsh the weather (reality) is.
And that's, my partner of life, a rope of life.
What about you?
Maybe because of the song lyrics or maybe because of the recent wedding bells around, that somehow this question appears, "If given a thing to describe your partner of life, what would he or she be?"
Have you ever been asked such a question?
Normally people would just ask what do you like about your partner, how did you both met and got together.
But if given such a question, how would you answer it?
Give yourself a few seconds to ponder on it.
Being in a relationship or marriage, somehow has a deep feeling and meaning.
You may not realise it at first when you fall in love, but as you will gradually sense it or know it as you are falling in love.
For me, my partner is just like a rope.
A rope that binds me to the ground, else I would be floating around like a balloon.
A rope that reminds me to be down-to-earth, else I would be wandering around in my faraway castles.
A rope that wouldn't let go no matter how harsh the weather (reality) is.
And that's, my partner of life, a rope of life.
What about you?
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)