Learn, unlearn and relearn

I've read an interesting article today. And the thought that keep whirling in my head is "learn, unlearn and relearn".
It's simply so true that we are taught of something and if we want new breakthrough, we got to unlearn the thing taught and relearn again, in order to get a new perspective of it. Come to think of it, it seems like this message is being passed on not only in our working environment but also in drama. Have you ever noticed it?

We are always taught on following certain method in order not to get things done wrong. We fear of mistake and as if it is plague, we try our best to avoid it. But aren't we were also reminded of learning from mistake? If we are afraid of making mistakes, how are we going to get wrong? If we don't go the wrong way, how are we going to learn?

Are you the kind who need to check and confirm every single detail of the direction before starting your journey to reach your destination?
Or are you the kind that just need a rough idea on direction and just stumble along your journey to reach your destination?
Which one of it is you?

relationship...

What does a relationship means to you? 

Do we mostly just think about how to start a relationship? 

Starting is always a hard step. 

The fidgety feeling that makes you restless or uneasy.

The hopeful nights that keep you awake. 

And when a relationship is started, everything seems so wonderful. Everything is so new, so intriguing, so exciting.

But have we ever thought of how to maintain a relationship? To keep it going. To make the bond stronger.

Maintaining is not an easy feat, which sometimes one forgets.

When differences occur, squabbles occur.

When squabbles occur, cracks occur.

When cracks occur, the rest is imaginable.

Remember.

Remember the starting moments.

Remember the moment it started.

Remember the attraction, remember the good, remember the promise.

Don't think of whether you'll be walking together or separately.

Think of whether you'll be walking a little slower or a little faster than each other.

As long as you are walking on the same path, it's just a matter of time to catch up with each other.

0.2 of dec passed

Seriously, time flies. And with year end around the corner, there seems to have so much loose ends to tie up and so much things to start thinking of, till that it feels as if I'm in a whirling pool, where things are turning round and round.
Interestingly enough, the mind seems to be slightly clearer than the rest of the year. Maybe because it is seeing an ending, and ending brings a new beginning.

I've been thinking more frequently this month, trying to figure things out. Seems like the thinking that need to be done, are all accumulated throughout the year. Oh my, how did I spent my eleven months?
Looks like I gotta work hard, oh nope, it's my brain that gotta work hard this month.