Day 7

It was the first time we celebrated our black and white anniversary. It was the second year, yet I could not recalled if we ever celebrated the first year.
Maybe because it was just a day where both of us put on our signatures agreeing to hold on to each other for the rest of our lives, and nothing significant to have us to remember such a day.
But this year, finally we celebrated it, and although it was nothing fancy or elaborate, but the  important thing was that we were still together fulfilling the promise we sworn.

dead or alive...

Have you ever heard someone who told you personally that he or she is dead? And even told you in such a firmed tone that as though you are asking question with an obvious answer.
What would you be thinking?

To me, at that moment, I have doubt of whether he is in clear state of mind. As it is not the first time he mention weird statements, simply out of the blue. So I tried to ask further to look for more clues. But the firm answer, gives me no further clue as my question is left  unanswered and I am given no chance to probe further.
However, I guess that he might receive quite a huge blow when he gotten the bad news on his report. Something that just triggered his mind wrongly, and just strike him that he is dead. But things seem to be back to normal within few hours later, which is lucky, else it would be hard to control the situation.

So, given you to be in such situation, how would you react? How would you access the scenario and what would you do? What might be steps to take and what to avoid if things get ugly.
All these are very subjective, depending on the time things are happening, whom you are with and etc. We can only make judgment of what we think if the best at that time.

Day 3

Where is the focus point?

You said that my focus point was wrong. And tried to use numerous examples to let me see why was it wrong. I understand that you were right, and things need to be changed and put it right again. It's impossible to juggle between three sides and hope to find a balance.

Sometimes, I really wondered how should I be thinking. I know nothing is perfect in the world, and things need to give and take, and things need to have priorities and urgencies level. And I know I'm still not good enough in handling all these.