Thursday, March 28, 2013

vacation...

Isn't it nice to have a long vacation?
What does it means to you, on having a vacation?

Having to escape from your unwanted work or chores?
Having to escape from your troubles and worries?
Having to escape from the reality life into your dream life?

Vacation is not suppose to be an escape or getaway. Rather, it should be a time for head clearing or soul searching.
Our mind should continuously thinking and reflecting on ourselves, instead of choosing temporary withdrawal from life.

Ponder about it.
Happy vacation!

Birthday...

Most of the people should be happy anticipating to celebrate their birthday, or maybe, anticipating on how others will celebrate their birthday for them.
How about you?

Are you the type that await others to plan a surprise for your birthday?
Or are you the type that want to plan your own surprise?
Or maybe you don't even like celebrating your own birthday?

I would think, that birthday is kinda personal thing. So, most important thing is you know that how you would like your birth day to be. Even though it's a day that will come by every year, but, after all, it's a different year which will only comes by once.
So, let's enjoy it in the way that you like it to be.

Happy birthday!!

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

not taking things lightly

I may not be a person that takes things too seriously, but I ain't a person who takes things lightly, too.
It may sounds the same to you, but it doesn't to me.
Self-denial? Nay, I don't think so.

Well, someone just told me to hang on for these few months.
I know he's basically trying to cheer for himself, or so I think.
Maybe in his point of view, he's cheering for us to hang on, but to me, it's more of a moral support for himself.

What is your reaction, if someone tells you that he/she might not lives long, maybe for just another few months time. Surprise? Indifference? Sad? Relieve?
Honestly, it is a mixture of all feelings to me. This is because, living and dying is a cycle that everyone needs to go through. There would definately be a moment of sadness because of the loss, but also a moment of relieve as the pain would no longer linger around.

Most of the times, I would not take those words seriously, for instance, if people are telling me that they can't or don't want to survive long. Not because I'm inhumane, but it's just that these are the negative vibes that appear once in a while and after a while it would go away.
All living things strive to live, because not all have the chance.
And if you are given an opportunity of a lifetime to live, how could you even given it up without trying hard.

Things may not always go the way we planned it, but that's what life is all about.
We live to learn what life really is, and not life that we conjour them up to be.