keep cool

It's not always so easy to keep cool, right?

And those people who always manage to keep their cool even during the most crucial moment, looked so suave.

It's true that every problem seems to have it's workaround, if not solution, if you just keep your cool to solve it and not being frantic about it. Though, it's always easier to say than to be done. But, come to think of it, Rome is not built in a day, so why not start practicising it today?

it does not feel right

How come it does not feel right when people keep on saying things that I feel were like insulting her. How come it does not feel right when people where challenging her authority, her status or her functionalities. Maybe I just couldn't accept the fact that she is not perfect. I just couldn't stand the criticsms being thrown at her. I couldn't fight back for her.

I guess many people are just like me. No one could stand the person or thing that they loved being criticized. Guess this is because we have feelings for them, we cared for them. This could be well describe by the phrase - love is blind.

If you just simply loved eating spicy stuff, no matter how other people tried knocking sense into you on the bad side of eating too much spicy food, you just couldn't hear them. It is because your love for it is so strong, you are just simply blinded by it.

I also noticed that, if others are arguing about the things that I do not have much interest in, I could look at their arguments much more objectively. So, I guess, this is what happened, it just popped up in my mind that I was fightly protectively on the subject about her, regardless of whether what was being mentioned is a fact or not.

From time to time, we just need to keep ourselves in check.

When we are simply get too emotional, which we might not be aware of, and people around us seems to be telling us something which we can't make sense of, maybe we should really a step back and have another view on the subject.

Nothing in the world is perfect. It is the imperfection, that is actually perfecting it to be perfect :)

month to be merry

It is December again. The month to be merry. 

Stepping into the month of December, I believed that it will remind people of Christmas, the month of presents, the month of sharing love and even the month of holiday. To some, December might be the month that sums up all for the current out going year, to reflect on your doings for the out-going year, as well as to make resolutions for the coming new year.

Of course, this are just the happy thoughts and I know, for some , there are some unhappy memories as well. But, life is short, don't get drown it your own unhappiness, jump out of it. It's time to make a change.