Do you at times, feel contradict or confuse with yourself?
To deny what you had earlier said or thought?
When things suddenly become so complicated, that you don't even know how you got yourself tangled up.
What would you do at the times when you are confused?
When you seems to be contradicting with your ownself?
Do you stop and
1) re-think again, from backwards, step by step, to see where the confusion had started
2) erase all previous conjucture and start to think from the original point, all over again
3) simply put the matter aside first, until you are cool headed to think again
4) simply give up thinking at all, and leave the matter to others to solve it
Well, for me, I think I had done all four options, but applied for different matters, at different times, of course. *I hope so*
But it's really important to be clear your mind when you are confused, else wrong decision might be made, though some may be lucky to hit jackpot sometimes, but not for all. A wrong decision might lead you to an even bigger confusion state.
However, do not let it (making wrong decision) be a stumbling block, stopping you from making the decision, from taking that one step.
No matter what decision you make, in what kind of situation, just be responsible for it. Be it good or bad, it's still your own decision anyway. Face it up, and somehow, there will be another way out for you.
Do not be confused by your surroundings. Stay focus and alert at all times, then you will know when time comes, what is the best decision to be made. There is no definate answer to the decision you should make, as our future is a mystery waiting for us to unfold ourselves. Be it good or bad, that is the choice we made.
Just go ahead!
Saturday, November 10, 2012
Thursday, September 27, 2012
describe your partner
While listening to a song this afternoon, a question suddenly popped out of my head.
Maybe because of the song lyrics or maybe because of the recent wedding bells around, that somehow this question appears, "If given a thing to describe your partner of life, what would he or she be?"
Have you ever been asked such a question?
Normally people would just ask what do you like about your partner, how did you both met and got together.
But if given such a question, how would you answer it?
Give yourself a few seconds to ponder on it.
Being in a relationship or marriage, somehow has a deep feeling and meaning.
You may not realise it at first when you fall in love, but as you will gradually sense it or know it as you are falling in love.
For me, my partner is just like a rope.
A rope that binds me to the ground, else I would be floating around like a balloon.
A rope that reminds me to be down-to-earth, else I would be wandering around in my faraway castles.
A rope that wouldn't let go no matter how harsh the weather (reality) is.
And that's, my partner of life, a rope of life.
What about you?
Maybe because of the song lyrics or maybe because of the recent wedding bells around, that somehow this question appears, "If given a thing to describe your partner of life, what would he or she be?"
Have you ever been asked such a question?
Normally people would just ask what do you like about your partner, how did you both met and got together.
But if given such a question, how would you answer it?
Give yourself a few seconds to ponder on it.
Being in a relationship or marriage, somehow has a deep feeling and meaning.
You may not realise it at first when you fall in love, but as you will gradually sense it or know it as you are falling in love.
For me, my partner is just like a rope.
A rope that binds me to the ground, else I would be floating around like a balloon.
A rope that reminds me to be down-to-earth, else I would be wandering around in my faraway castles.
A rope that wouldn't let go no matter how harsh the weather (reality) is.
And that's, my partner of life, a rope of life.
What about you?
Saturday, July 28, 2012
letter to God ...
Dear God,
Why are you leaving me alone here?
Why are you leaving me alone facing the ordeal in life without any guide or hints on how should I walk on by myself?
Why are you not taking me away with you?
When you are coming to pick me up?
When will I see you again?
When can I leave this disastrous life that I'm in now?
Dear God, where are you?
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In the time of trouble, do we only think of God and hope that God will lead us the way to the light in the darkness?
In the time of trouble, do we only think of ways of escaping and hope that we do not need to think of a solution and solution will miraculously appear?
In the time of trouble, do we only think that we are the only one being helpless and pitiful?
God will always be with us, whether or not we are in times of trouble.
Is it really that God did not guide us in times of trouble, or is it that we are too clouded by the trouble that we missed out the hints given?
Escaping from trouble is just a temporary solution.
Same situation will keep arising, until we manage to find our solution to it and avoid it from happening again.
It is as if chances given, to allow us get the correct answer to it.
Life is like acting in a drama.
If you can act according to the script and enjoy the process, everything will be smooth sailing.
Else you'll get a lot of NGs and have to keep on repeating the same act, over and over again.
So, enjoy the show.
Why are you leaving me alone here?
Why are you leaving me alone facing the ordeal in life without any guide or hints on how should I walk on by myself?
Why are you not taking me away with you?
When you are coming to pick me up?
When will I see you again?
When can I leave this disastrous life that I'm in now?
Dear God, where are you?
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In the time of trouble, do we only think of God and hope that God will lead us the way to the light in the darkness?
In the time of trouble, do we only think of ways of escaping and hope that we do not need to think of a solution and solution will miraculously appear?
In the time of trouble, do we only think that we are the only one being helpless and pitiful?
God will always be with us, whether or not we are in times of trouble.
Is it really that God did not guide us in times of trouble, or is it that we are too clouded by the trouble that we missed out the hints given?
Escaping from trouble is just a temporary solution.
Same situation will keep arising, until we manage to find our solution to it and avoid it from happening again.
It is as if chances given, to allow us get the correct answer to it.
Life is like acting in a drama.
If you can act according to the script and enjoy the process, everything will be smooth sailing.
Else you'll get a lot of NGs and have to keep on repeating the same act, over and over again.
So, enjoy the show.
Saturday, July 7, 2012
cancer
C.A.N.C.E.R
A six letters words which can caused an uproar in a person's life.
It is really common to hear about cancer nowadays.
Not only through news or talks, but it become so common that you can find people around you who are diagnosed with cancer, which may be more than just one.
A word which was so uncommon and distant, suddenly came and barge into your life without notice.
An unwelcome guest that came and won't just go away simply because you don't welcome it.
Maybe it won't be an easy task to avoid this guest, but there are still ways which we can keep it at bay and not to enter our life.
But if you had accidentally allowed this guest to come into your life, don't be dampened, as there are still hope in chasing it away.
A six letters words which can caused an uproar in a person's life.
It is really common to hear about cancer nowadays.
Not only through news or talks, but it become so common that you can find people around you who are diagnosed with cancer, which may be more than just one.
A word which was so uncommon and distant, suddenly came and barge into your life without notice.
An unwelcome guest that came and won't just go away simply because you don't welcome it.
Maybe it won't be an easy task to avoid this guest, but there are still ways which we can keep it at bay and not to enter our life.
But if you had accidentally allowed this guest to come into your life, don't be dampened, as there are still hope in chasing it away.
learning to let go (2)
Letting go is not an easy task.
Still, it is something we must learn, by and by.
Nothing is fixed and remains permanent in life.
Life is just like classes that we have to attend in school, to learn on one subject and another, syllabus by syllabus.
Classes never get easier but only harder as we goes up the ladder, so is life.
Things are ever changing and we cannot afford to stay in the same comfort zone forever.
Learn how to let go, learn how to adapt to new things and you may see life in a different light.
Life may be imperfect, but it is through these imperfections that let us appreciate what life really is.
Do not be frustrated with life, when you are at the lowest point of your life.
Learn how to let go of your frustration in the right way, and you will find that you are able to live through it.
Do not be angered with life, when things seems to fall apart in your life.
Learn how to let go of your anger in the right way, and you will find things are not so bad after all.
Do not be disappointed with life, when things never seems to be right in your life.
Learn how to let go of your disappointment in the right way, and you will find that there are still hope waiting for you.
Things are always easier to be said than to be done.
Nevertheless, as long as we try to do it, sooner or later we can achieve it.
Life is never easy anyway.
Still, it is something we must learn, by and by.
Nothing is fixed and remains permanent in life.
Life is just like classes that we have to attend in school, to learn on one subject and another, syllabus by syllabus.
Classes never get easier but only harder as we goes up the ladder, so is life.
Things are ever changing and we cannot afford to stay in the same comfort zone forever.
Learn how to let go, learn how to adapt to new things and you may see life in a different light.
Life may be imperfect, but it is through these imperfections that let us appreciate what life really is.
Do not be frustrated with life, when you are at the lowest point of your life.
Learn how to let go of your frustration in the right way, and you will find that you are able to live through it.
Do not be angered with life, when things seems to fall apart in your life.
Learn how to let go of your anger in the right way, and you will find things are not so bad after all.
Do not be disappointed with life, when things never seems to be right in your life.
Learn how to let go of your disappointment in the right way, and you will find that there are still hope waiting for you.
Things are always easier to be said than to be done.
Nevertheless, as long as we try to do it, sooner or later we can achieve it.
Life is never easy anyway.
Thursday, May 10, 2012
regret....
One afternoon, out of the blue, my friend popped a question while driving us out for lunch.
He asked us, "What is the thing that you've regretted in your life?"
It took me quite a while to think, what regrets I had in life.
But weirdly, nothing pops up in my head. I guess either there is really not a thing that I really regret in life or maybe it is just simply that I am a real forgetful person.
If it is you, what would you have replied?
What is the thing that you regretted in life?
Another thought comes to my mind.
If you had things that you regretted, why do it in the first place.
If it is something you had done, then why regret it?
Nevertheless, some might think that there are things happened out of our control, still, if we really appreciated every single moment in life, will there really be things that we will still regret?
If it is really fate, why not take it in stride and never feel regret?
He asked us, "What is the thing that you've regretted in your life?"
It took me quite a while to think, what regrets I had in life.
But weirdly, nothing pops up in my head. I guess either there is really not a thing that I really regret in life or maybe it is just simply that I am a real forgetful person.
If it is you, what would you have replied?
What is the thing that you regretted in life?
Another thought comes to my mind.
If you had things that you regretted, why do it in the first place.
If it is something you had done, then why regret it?
Nevertheless, some might think that there are things happened out of our control, still, if we really appreciated every single moment in life, will there really be things that we will still regret?
If it is really fate, why not take it in stride and never feel regret?
Sunday, February 26, 2012
when we get older
When we get older, we meet more peopleWhen we get older, we make more friends
When we get older, we involve in more activities
When we get older, we face more experiences
When we get older, we create more memories
But ..
When we get older, will our memories failed us?
When we get older, will our memories get faded by time?
When we get older, will we need to depend on our remembrance to remind us of our memories?
When we get older, will we need to depend on others to remind us of our memories?
When we get older ..
When we get older, we involve in more activities
When we get older, we face more experiences
When we get older, we create more memories
But ..
When we get older, will our memories failed us?
When we get older, will our memories get faded by time?
When we get older, will we need to depend on our remembrance to remind us of our memories?
When we get older, will we need to depend on others to remind us of our memories?
When we get older ..
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
2012
(Listening to IU and Yoon Kwon - First Love)
So fast and now we are already in the year 2012. Never thought that I would come so far. The journey was not smooth sailing all the time, yet I have managed to get to where I am today. So had you.
New year new resolution. That is what most would say. Resolution for the new year, new target, new aim. But what about reviewing your past resolutions? Have those been fulfilled or accomplished? If not, why?
New year is like a marking along a long journey. To know, how far we have gone by, whether we are still on the right track or not. It also allow us to review back, the wrong track that we have gone through, to remind us not to repeat the same mistake (That is only if we review back). To continue marking along the way, somehow also encourage us to keep on going, no matter is hard time or good time.
So fast and now we are already in the year 2012. Never thought that I would come so far. The journey was not smooth sailing all the time, yet I have managed to get to where I am today. So had you.
New year new resolution. That is what most would say. Resolution for the new year, new target, new aim. But what about reviewing your past resolutions? Have those been fulfilled or accomplished? If not, why?
New year is like a marking along a long journey. To know, how far we have gone by, whether we are still on the right track or not. It also allow us to review back, the wrong track that we have gone through, to remind us not to repeat the same mistake (That is only if we review back). To continue marking along the way, somehow also encourage us to keep on going, no matter is hard time or good time.
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