Monday, October 25, 2010

proposal ring

Most of the girls would like accessories like necklace, earrings or rings. Ring is something I had not much luck with. I do love rings, too, just like any other girls, but maybe some bad experience, made me stayed away from rings.

I still remembered, having a few times, on different occasions trying on some rings, and end up having a real hard time trying to get them off. It sort of leaving some 'bad memories'. So, everytime, I would tell myself that I would not buy any rings to wear,as they are just not suitable for me.
And now came the day, that my  proposal ring is presented to me. Surprisingly, I find it fitting well, and just as comfortable as I thought how rings should be.
He was actually quite surprised when I said, I'm not going to change the size of it. He thought the ring looked loose on my finger. But to me, it is just nice, just comfortable. Design of a ring does play a role, but nothing beats a comfortable ring on the finger.
But now, finally, I have the ring of my own.

Thursday, October 21, 2010

wedding photos

Heard the DJs conversation on a radio station, asking their listeners, what is their dream wedding like. This trigger a thought of mine - on the wedding album shots.

The shooting of wedding photos are so common and seems to be a must-have trend nowadays. Couples can easily opt to have their wedding photos taken either locally or overseas. Thanks to the wedding fairs that offer so many attractive and affordable packages to couples, to have their wedding photos taken at their dream spots. A win-win situation to both parties.

Looking back at our parents, the older generations, shooting of wedding photos were much simpler. A photo taken in wedding dress, either in pair or with families. Photos taken either at the studio or a photographer to drop by the house.

I'm sure everyone has their own fascinations on what and how their wedding photos would look like.
As for me, I feel that wedding photos are not only to be memorable, but most importantly, meaningful to both parties. I always had this thought, if I were to have my wedding photos taken, I would like to have it taken at my alma mater, our alma mater, places where we've grown up, places that we both met and started to get together. These places may not be as fanciful as those tourism places, but those were the places where memories were woven.

What about yours?

Sunday, October 17, 2010

korean love songs for wedding

I'm trying to list out at least 10 suitable korean songs to be played during wedding occasions, be it during proposal or during the wedding dinner.

"Will You Marry Me" (결혼해 줄래)
Singer: Lee Seung Gi (feat Bizniz)
Released Year: 2009
An light hearted up-beat song. The song depicts a man trying to ask for the hand of his girl.

"We Fell In Love" (우리 사랑하게 됐어요)
Singer: Ga-In (B.E.G) and Jo Kwon (2AM)
Released Year: 2009
A lively duet song showing two person finally found that they had fall in love with each other.

(Last Updated: 17 Oct 2010)

"Beautiful Life"
Singer: V.O.S (feat Lee Minwoo)
Released Year: 2008
A vibrant group song describing a guy that has find the love of his life.

"I Love You"
Singer: Han Dong Joon/Goon Woo
Released Year: 2007
A slow tempo love song reaffirming his love for his beloved.

(Last Updated: 18 Oct 2010)


"Found You" (찾았다)
Singer: JYJ
Released Year: 2010
A pleasant love song, saying that one has found his love.

(Last Updated: 27 Oct 2010)


"Two As One" (둘이 하나)
Singer: Lyn
Released Year: 2010
A joyful love song, wondering if she wanted to confess her love for him.

"Hope is a Dream That Never Sleeps" (희망은 잠들지 않는 꿈)
Singer: Kyu Hyun (Super Junior)
Released Year: 2010
A slightly slow beat song in the beginning, picturing love as hope.

(Last Updated: 01 Nov 2010)


"Only You" (그대만이)
Singer: Kim Jong Wook
Released Year: 2008
A slow up-beat tempo song, expressing the only love of the guy.

"Couple" (커플)
Singer: Kim Yong Joon (SG Wannabe) (feat Hwang Jung Eum)
Released Year: 2009
A happy, cheeky love song, showing the bountiful love the guy has for the girl.

"Marry U"
Singer: Super Junior
Released Year: 2007
A soft rapping song, where the guy is asking for the hand of his girl.

(Last Updated: 08 Jan 2011)


"Vanilla Love"
Singer: Lee Hyun Ji (feat Onew (SHINee))
Released Year: 2008
A soft cute love song, showing the love for each other tru the the little daily stuff.

"Marry Me"
Singer: FT Island
Released Year: 2009
Another cute love song, asking the girl for marriage.
(Last Updated: 20 Jan 2011)


"Mon Tue Wed Thurs Fri Sat Sun"
Singer: Suho (feat IU)
Released Year: 2009
A very lively song, rapping the guy's daily feeling till he met his girl. The essence of the song is actually the rapping part, though the chorus part is lovelier.
(Last Updated: 24 Feb 2011)

wedding songs - korean songs?

Keep hearing wedding news on friends around me, be it wedding proposal, ROM or chinese wedding dinner.
A little of envy but what to do, as my fate is not here yet  ;p
Anyway, this is something I've wanted to do .. to find korean songs suitable to be played during wedding dinners.
I find that usually people will be playing English, Mandarin or Cantonese love songs. Why not Korean?
Maybe, so coincidentally the friends I know, are not really Korean buff.
But, if I ever had a wedding of my own, I would hope to play Korean songs through out the night.

So, keep a lookout for my up-coming post on list of Korean love songs as wedding songs.. :)

Thursday, October 14, 2010

change

For things to change, first of all, you should change your mindset.
To change your mindset, you should change the way you think.
Only with this, then only the real change can begun.

Saturday, October 9, 2010

a new chapter

Another good news, just within a few weeks apart.
They will now, finishing up the current chapter, and move towards a new chapter in their lives.
A chapter that now not only about themselves, but also about their partners in hand.
Two of my lovely ex-housemates, one had been proposed to and the other, had proposed.
It's good to know that their lives now will be filled by more love and care.

From being just in a relationship to being in a commitment, is not just a change of the stage of life or status. Instead, it is about the love you have for your better half and, most importantly the courage, determination and responsibility to be with the one you love, in whatever circumstances that may be.
I think I have salute those who will be or are in this stage.

In life, there are a few stages that we all need to go through, and this is one where mostly will be going through.
To fall in love and to carry on their love to another level - marriage.

I'ld like to wish all the married couples, to have a blissful marriage and happy life.
And to the soon-to-be married couples, may your coming chapter be filled with plentiful of beautiful memories and it's time to close your 'single' chapter. Adios.

coincidence or fate

Is it just a coincidence or fate?

It's weird, or rather, funny, I would think.

His initial plan is to come over and visit me but in the end cancel the plan. However, because of a sudden unexpected call of an unrelated matter, I get to go over and visit him instead.

His initial plan is to come and pick me up at point A and at the same time trying to learn up the route, yet decided against it, and plan to pick me up at point B as it'll be nearer. But somehow, I am let with no choice but to stop at point A and he had to come over to point A instead.

Is it just a coincidence that the latest plan can't work out and need to fall back on initial plan? Or is it fate that wants us to proceed with our initial plan?

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

changing mindset

They said, if you feel that things kept repeating themselves, then it must be that you have been making the same decision over and over again.
So, what to do?
You've got to change your mindset.
Then only the decision will be a different one.

I agree with this!

Friday, October 1, 2010

decision

Decision is made, every splitting seconds,
No time to ponder, no time to regret,
What we can do, is to make sure we choose the best choice at that very moment.